Hormones? or Whore, Moans?

Alas, today I finally got a day off! Hallelujah! I haven't had time to hangout with my good friend Dean in a while, so I decided to call him up and asked him if he was interested in grabbing coffee. We met up at the local starbucks and I grabbed my usual double white chocolate mocha. Sitting at the outside table, we struck up the usual conversation between two friends about life, love, friends, and work. At this very moment, I am casually dating two very stable guys. While Dean was once again on the onslaught of the occassional sexual smackdown known to the gays as hooking up. Don't get me wrong Dean is quite a catch, however settling down even for a small lapse of time hasn't exactly been his thing. Being the sensual sexy social Seattle stud, he's not exactly what is opt to ever having to settle. We're good friends and he knows well of the fact that I am the LTR type. I know we are two completely different beings in the social dating war. Although it maybe completely pointless, I still try to probe him to at least consider the fact of bringing a guy I recognize whenever we see each other on social gatherings. As we talked from his relationship statuses to mine to the latest gossip of our other friends', it leads me to question why the gays or men in general (if not some non-menopausal women also aka SLUTS) enjoy the heat of a bed so often? Is it their hormones that encourages them to get into those "supposed" unexpected late night social encounters known as sex that often leads to snobbery, turning the opposite way the next time they see them, and then, the usage of that wonderful line in front of friends... "I had sex with that guy? What the fuck was I thinking?" Yes, that was quite a mouthful, but then again those one sided situations often are. Or is it their inner WHORE that's desperately dying to be touched, to be stroked, to be accomodated, to MOAN in the pressence of the heat of pleasure that gets them into trouble? Whether is one way or the other, theres one sense of advice if you are going under these type of things... be discrete because however way a person looks at it and depending when it finally hits you that you want a stable relationship...no one really wants to be with someone who has fucked around with their friends.


Try to beat that inner whore down!
Zack